November 2, 2016

In loving memory...



It's been almost a year without my Dad, and 20 years (?!?) without my Mom, but I still think about them, and miss them everyday. They were compassionate, capable, adventurous people, and I realize as an adult, how privileged I am, to have had them as parents, and role models.

They grew up on adjoining farms in Iowa, and so they knew each other most of their lives. They were 5 years apart in age, so I assume that they didn't have a romantic connection till after they were older. Mom was twenty, and Dad was twenty-five when they got married. The story goes, that Dad proposed in a letter while he was away serving in the Army.



December 6th 1947

In 1949, two years after they were married, Dad acquired a job with the FAA, (Federal Aviation Administration), in Anchorage, Alaska. They said their goodbyes, (forever, or so their parents thought), loaded up their Dodge flatbed truck, hooked up an Airstream trailer and left for Alaska. They drove over the ALCAN Highway, (Alaska - Canadian), the road had recently been opened for civilian travel,  previously it had only been used for military transport. It took them three weeks, and the road was sometimes difficult, but it was an adventure they both enjoyed.


The smiles on their faces say it all.
On Denali Rose, I keep a framed copy of this photo, to remind me of them, and their spirit.

Traveling companions, who became life-long friends.

I believe the rifle Dad is holding, is the same one I own today.

Debonair Dad

Over the years, family and friends made many trips to Alaska. My parents became great tour guides as they opened their home to anyone who came, and showed off Alaska by camper, motorhome, boat, and car.

Camping with my grandparents, and other relatives. My grandmothers always wore hose, dresses, and sensible shoes.

In Anchorage, at the time of the 1964 Alaskan Earthquake, magnitude 9.2, we lived in the subdivision, Turnagain By the Sea. During the earthquake, we had to flee the area, and lost our home. It was later known, tongue-in-cheek, as Turnagain In the Sea.

Our car and house.

We had jumped in the car to drive away, but it was already to late to use the roads, so we had to run on foot. Notice the ocean in the background, the row of houses behind us sank into the mud flats right away, and our house fell into a crevasse. There was a gentleman in a wheelchair in the house right behind us, and he didn't make it out in time.

In a hole.

We threaded our way through power lines, open crevasses, and gathered up quite a band of neighbors, who were also fleeing from their homes. I was seven, I remember my Dad taking charge, and leading everyone to relative safety further away from the ocean bluff. He found kind-hearted people blocks away from the immediate danger, who loaded us into cars, and drove us to friends, hospitals, and safety shelters. After my family was delivered to our church, and Pastor's house, Dad went back to the neighborhood, found his hunting rifle, and guarded the area from looters. (Geez, even then.....) We were afraid of the reports of tidal waves, but Anchorage was spared those, when other communities were not.

My Dad, Mom, three brothers, and I

This photo was staged weeks after the earthquake.  We were dressed up, I had my hair curled, and an empty box was brought out for us to look into, and oooh, and ahhhh over. I don't know why. Our house, and car are in the "official" earthquake tourist magazines, but not this photo.

We eventually built a new home, in the foothills of Anchorage, relocating along with many of our neighbors from the Turnagain area, and now my youngest brother lives there with his family. Dad and Mom built every home we lived in. Dad was one of those kind of guys that knew, mechanical, electrical, plumbing, carpentry, and construction. They also helped all of their adult children build, or remodel all of their homes.



Yes, this really is the name of the road I grew up on. It made for some crazy explanations.

Moose meat was a staple for us. Dad would go hunting every fall, bring home a moose, and he and Mom would process it in the kitchen. This would entail cutting the quarters into meal size pieces, and packaging it for the freezer, and grinding, (by hand crank), meat with suet for hamburger. Even now I will always choose to eat moose over beef any time. It's delicious.


Berry picking, as well as hunting.


Once a year, in the summer, Dad and Mom would go to Chitina to dip-net for salmon. This is an activity for Alaska residents who qualify for subsistence fishing. The process entails holding a large net, on a long pole out in the water, and try to scoop up salmon as they swim by. Dad usually returned with his limit, and again the kitchen would be the processing plant, as they cut, wrapped, and canned the year's fish supply.

Copper River
This method of fishing requires some strength and balance as you stand in a fast moving, cold, cloudy river, wearing chest-waders, and sweep a fish net through the water.  You know you have a salmon in it, when you feel it slam into the side.

80lb King Salmon
Imagine standing there sweeping your net against the current, and an 80lb King hits and struggles against the net.......

A winter's meals.
Many Alaskans still hunt and dip-net today, in order to lay away the winter's meat supply.


At the time of Dad's signing with the FAA, the federal government had an unusual perk for those going to Alaska. They paid for the employee and their immediate family members to return to their point of origin every two years for vacation. That meant that our family would return to Colorado every couple of years. In reality what happened was, Dad took the equivalent amount of money, purchased a new car, had it delivered to the SeaTac Wa. airport, and we flew in from Anchorage. We got in our new car, and went on the ultimate family road-trip. We visited Nat'l Parks, State Parks, Monuments, tourist sights, and of course great grandparents, grandparents, uncles, aunts, cousins, and friends. I had been in about 40 of the United States by the time I was twelve. My parents had always told me that I should work for an airline if I wanted to continue to travel, and the added bonus, was that they would get to fly also. I started my twenty-plus year career with Alaska Airlines just before my 20th birthday, and they had the world to explore. 

In Disneyland, notice Mom had made us matching dresses, and everyone got their Disneyland hat.


I only included this photo to embarrass my siblings, I think we were in New Mexico, about to tour Carlsbad Caverns.

They started with Hawaii, moved onto Australia, New Zealand, and eventually Europe. At that time the nominal fee that airline employees paid for travel was payroll deducted. I always knew that Mom and Dad were out and about by how much was gone from my paycheck. (of course, they always replaced it) 


Enjoying Hawaii.

I'm having a hard time ending this post in our blog, because there are so many stories that come to mind, and it's difficult to not want to include them all.


  • How they took in anyone who didn't have family to celebrate holidays with. Think crowded tables, and lots of laughter.
  • Every summer, with camping, fishing, learning to enjoy the outdoors, and it's natural inhabitants.
  • As children, the classic line at our dinner table when we misbehaved: "Do you want to go to the bathroom with me?" This indicated you might be in danger of a spanking, no one ever went to the bathroom with him, and that line always brought on giggles for everyone. (No thanks Dad, I can go by myself.)
  • How Mom flew to Fairbanks every Monday for 6 months to babysit my children one night a week while I worked.
  • Each grandchild knew they were a special person, and always got a card in the mail for EVERY holiday.
  • They were always up for a rousing card game, ten to one, hearts, pinocle, tripoli, anyone?
  • Dad had a habit of giving US presents on HIS birthday.
  • We had to finally end my Mother's memorial service, people kept coming forward with how she had helped and influenced their lives. It was an astounding testimonial.

The list goes on, and on, and for me, it is heartwarming to remember them all.


Dad never lost his capable, adventurous spirit. For his 90th birthday, he bought himself a car he had always wanted to drive, an electric blue Dodge Charger. He continued to drive across country with it, visiting friends, and relatives.

Go Dad Go!

Their legacy to all whose lives they touched, is of deep faith, selfless love, a spirit to help, counsel, and guide, and meeting crisis, or adventure with calm, competent action.

I wrote a line in Dad's obituary that speaks of my parents character, while naming those of us he left behind;
"and all who became family just because they cared, or were cared for."


















4 comments:

  1. What a wonderful post! I love, love, love the old photos and hearing about your parents and life in Alaska!

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    1. Thank you for your kind words, it means a lot to me. Your blog and writing have inspired me. This sort of started out because you wanted to see the photo of them coming up the highway in '49, and then it has been a year since Dad's passing, and I just kept writing. I know we have readers from places other than Alaska, and I thought they would enjoy seeing some of our way of life, while relating it to my pioneer parents.

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  2. I _love_ this post and the pictures. My favorite picture is of the flatbed truck and air-stream.

    Thank you for sharing!

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    1. Thanks Heather, that is one of my favorites too. One of my sister-in-laws, had a copy reprinted and framed so that we could each have one. It is treasured. There is a restaurant in Anacortes Wa, called "Dad's Diner". Their walls are covered with photos of Dads that people have sent in. That photo is also hanging there.

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